Sometimes people take for granted the ones that have their best interest at heart. Sometimes people hurt their beloved ones without having the intention to do that. Other times they just take them for granted and toss them aside.
If you are the girl that is always there for others, then you have the biggest heart of them all. You feel deeply, you help people. You fall for the ones that take you for granted, you give without receiving anything in return.
If you are the girl who keeps giving love like it’s on sale, without being loved back, just stop a second and think. Girl, think whether this guy asks how you are or checks in to hear how your day went. It’s the little things that bring joy in your life after all. All you really need is a couple of little things that will hold your smile throughout the day.
But Girl, you shouldn’t always be the one to hold all the strings together. I know that deep down you know that you need someone to encourage you. Deep down you know that it takes two to build a relationship.
Just paint a simple picture in your head. Think how wonderful it would be, if the two of you gave the same amount of respect, attention, and care and all things necessary for your love. Girl, remind yourself that you deserve the invested time and energy you always so freely give.
Remind yourself that you don’t have to be the fixer every time. If you tried a couple of times and there is no response even slightly near to what you are giving, then it’s time to move on. You have tried and not it’s time to heal and build yourself stronger for the guy who will absolutely be there for you.
On the other hand, if you are the guy that keeps hurting without intention or just tossing her on the side constantly, just stop doing that. This girl you keep tossing aside is in reality, the one that is filling your solitude. She is the one that finds the energy to keep the relationship going. She is the one that builds you up, even if you don’t notice it.
When no one is there, is she the one you call? Of course, she is the one that will come when you call. She will support you no matter what. Because she knows that she would want you to support her occasionally when she needs a shoulder to rely on.
Don’t you think there is something wrong with always being the guy that repeatedly depends on his girl, without giving dependency back? Don’t you think that when you expect her to give you the best at your worst times, she expects nothing but the same from you?
Do you know the number of times your girl gave you chances and still chose you? Well, wake up boy, before your girl wakes up and runs away forever. What comes after she runs, you ask? You lose her and you are left feeling regret. I know that you wouldn’t want to feel regret for losing her.
That’s why you need to wake up and show her respect, show her love and show her care. Just show your girl attention and she will blossom. Talk to her and hold her hand. If you want to keep this girl by your side, you will work on the relationship and never take her for granted.
On the other hand, if you find yourself in these words, and you know for sure that this girl is not the right one for you. Then, you know that liberating her is the right thing to do. Liberate her and she will find love in another place because you are not the guy she needs.
Free yourself as well and find the girl you will really respect and care deeply for. No matter whose side you are on, believe me when I say, that for every person there is an adequately similar person to create one perfect whole.
To find someone that will love you at the same level you love them is a wonderful feeling. And you will get that wonderful feeling once you know what you deserve. And you darling, deserve the best.
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