While finding the right man who is a perfect match is hard, it is even more challenging to keep the man interested. Once you have established that two of you are a match, you must learn how to keep him interested. Men want someone who is desirable to them but still admired by many. So don’t adjust your life completely. Be mysterious, have your sweet moments with other people. Here’s how to keep a man interested.
Let your man know how grateful you are for how he handles things. Compliment him when he helps you out in the house. Don’t wait for significant events. The fact that you notice his small efforts will make him like you even more. Don’t make him think that you take him for granted. Laughing at his jokes makes the man feel important.
Don’t limit yourself. Do not allow yourself to be a one night stand or just a booty call. Be reliable. When out having dinner, offer to settle the bill once in a while or at least split it. You can even ask him out to an event which you have to pay for the tickets. Such things will make you stand out. The man will have confidence in you and your ability to establish a stable relationship.
No man wants a lady who is not sure of herself. A bold woman who takes good care of herself is very attractive. Don’t let your insecurities ruin your chance of having a good man by your side. Although the thought of spending more time with your man is tempting, don’t give in. Have your hobbies and friends to hang out with. Make time for your man but not always. Cancel a date once in a while. People always want that which they cannot have, don’t be readily available.
Surprise him with a very romantic date. Don’t allow him to predict your moves. Be very creative when around him. You do not have to be alone in the room for you to make a move. As you hug him goodbye, hold on to it for a little longer. You can kiss him on the neck when he least expects it. Make him remember you and desire to meet you again by seducing him from time to time. While at it, do something that you are comfortable with. Don’t try pole dancing if you have no skill set.
Men are visual beings, and that is not about to change. Although your character may make you stand out, a good outfit will make you stand out. Wear outfits that make men ogle when you pass but be decent and elegant. Let your man feel proud as he walks with you. Nothing will make a guy more interested in you than the fact that other guys wish they can have you.
It could be in their genes or maybe not but men are attracted to sweet scents. Keep your kitchen be fresh at all times and your bedroom smelling like a fresh rose flower. Wear sweet perfumes every time you go for dinner or every time you have a date.