Relationship

4 Questions To Ask Before You Say “I Do”

“How do you know when you’ve met the right one?”
Almost everyone asks this question at some point in their lives; unfortunately, there are not too many who get a concrete answer.  But if you’re reading this article, then you’re one of the lucky few.

Interestingly, the criteria for choosing a spouse can be reduced to just four key characteristics.  If you can find somebody with all four then it’s highly likely that you’ve found your life partner.

1) What is This Person’s Core Values?
Before you decide to marry someone, make sure that they are fully committed to some kind of objective moral and ethical standard.  Whether we realize it or not, everyone has some kind of core value that is central to their personality.  And when push comes to shove, that value is going to be the most important thing in the world to that person.

For example: Jerry’s core value is adventure.  When Jerry starts to date Diana, he happens to be volunteering at the local Emergency Room.  He goes there every night, holds people’s hands, calms them down.  And Diana is thinking to herself that Jerry must have a heart of gold if this is how he’s spending his spare time.  Now, Jerry might really have a heart of gold.  But he’s volunteering because of his love for adventure.  The ER is filled with action, it’s exciting.  So right now, Jerry’s adventurousness happens to be expressing itself in a kind way.  But that could change.  Jerry might stop volunteering, and start trying other adventures that Diana may find unpleasant, dangerous, or even unethical.

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