What is the first word that comes to your mind when I say… “Adultery Affair” or “Cheating Spouses”? For the general population of people, we will all automatically assume that we’re referring to “MEN”. This is sad but, yet it’s the truth for most people.
Researchers from the University of Washington found that infidelity is on the rise, and notably, women are closing the adultery gap. It seems that more women are cheating on their spouses – nearly as many as men, reported the International Herald Tribune.
Younger women are on the rise of cheating on their spouses nearly as often as men but as the trends go the word “adultery” and chances are, the men always come to mind. Fair enough, men are still holding the top position in the chart of adultery. In whatever ways the placing may be, the utmost steps to be taken care is to the understanding of what the causes are. Self console with own imaginary answered will be as good as “cheating on yourself” but it’s not going to solve your relationship problems with your husband or your wife and more often than ever it happens to unmarried couples.
Nobody wakes up one morning and says “OKAY… I’m going to cheat on my wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend today.” Relationship problems are often accrued based on our daily events and miscommunications. Quarrels, fights and unvoiced dissatisfactions are often kept inside the mind and believing that we can ‘accept’ of whatever happened one day until we shout ” I can’t take this ANYMORE!”.
As we bring the problems to wherever we go, and most of the time we spend at least 8 hours a day working together with hot handsome/beautiful counterparts. Let it be colleagues, acquaintance with clients, business associates or the rich and not-so-jerky-bosses. There ought to be someone we’re particularly close in the office that we share our personal lives as well. There’s where the fling happens.
Stop Taking Your Partner For Granted & Living In Denial
I heard lots of “Nah, it won’t happen to me. My wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend loves me so much.” But are you alert enough to check on your spouse behavior from time to time? At most time when you realize something is wrong with your partner; it’s often 1-step too late.
So, what are the symptoms?
There are many ways to check whether your partner has been unfaithful to you. Some of the betraying partners are so good at acting, that they could be the next OSCAR Award Winner. If this is the case you ought to find other means. The sudden changing behavior you never felt before during all these years when you’re together with your partner. The secrecy in answering calls coming after working hours or at weird hours late at night.
Watch out if your spouse speaks less words or using different tone when talking to you. Don’t get bedazzled when your partner showers you with expensive gifts or surprised presents which you never received after years of marriage. These may be signs of conscience, be it for repent (past affair without your knowledge), or present attachment. Do your judgment carefully and patiently and don’t jump into unjustified conclusion.
So how do we avoid these problems from happening in our relationship?
A daily dosage of personal attention and loving care to your partner help to prevent your relationship from failing. Everyone loves to be pampered. Plan weekend night-outs together with your partner and do it together. It hasn’t to be expensive; it’s the companion and quality time that counts. Mingle around your partner’s friends and colleagues. Get to know them and well acquainted. You’ll never know that one day they could come in handy. You got what I meant.
Whatever the outcome might be, amicably solving to the sensitive issue of cheating partners and adultery is a good way.
A word of advice: Forcible won’t create Happiness while Understanding binds Togetherness.
There will not be a right person to judge or put comments of a relationship issue other than those who’re involved.