Sometimes it’s hard for us to accept the fact that someone we care about deeply or someone we love just doesn’t feel the same way. No matter how hard we try, we just can’t come to terms with the notion of being without that person. It pains us just to think about it, let alone accept it as our reality.
In such moments we feel like that person has ripped open our chest, taken our heart and thrown it down a cliff, shattering it into a million little pieces. It feels like our heart will never be whole again and our soul is staring down a dark, deep abyss. And the worst thing is that there’s nothing we can do about it but stay back and observe this whole scenario. The pain and betrayal we feel in such a moment is something inexplicable and even though we know it’s the end, we still can’t accept it entirely.
But even though it feels like it, this isn’t the worst thing that could happen to us. The worst possible thing would be willfully choosing to stay blind to the harsh truth. Avoiding to come to terms with the reality of things. Not accepting that that person no longer loves us and acting as if nothing happened. Living a lie is much worse than anything else and we know it too, we just choose not to believe it.
This kind of attitude in life will ruin us and we need to do something fast if we want to counteract the devastating consequences. There’s nothing worse than wasting our time on people who aren’t deserving of it. There’s nothing worse than choosing to stay with someone who doesn’t love us or respect us any longer. These people who toy with our emotions take advantage of our love and our kind nature. They play games with us and lure us in with hints of a happier life in the future. These people don’t care about anything else but themselves and we need to wake up and see the bigger picture. They will never love us the way we want to be loved and that’s just how it is.
We need to wake the hell up and break out of this vicious circle of self-deception. This is the best thing we can do for ourselves. We need to stop making excuses for them and just accept that they’re just not right for us. And the truth is we don’t really need them. We will be much better on our own even though it may not seem like that in the beginning.
If they really cared for us, if they truly loved us and respected us, don’t you think they would have found a better way to show it? Don’t you think that they wouldn’t hurt us and make us feel bad about ourselves? If they truly cared about us, we would know it, but this is not the case.
We need to run away from these toxic people and never look back. We deserve to find love, respect and support in our partner, and they will never give us that. We need to exit this toxic relationship and open ourselves to the new possibilities in life. It may be painful at first but that’s just how every rebirth feels. After a while we’ll be grateful to ourselves that we finally decided to take fate into our own hands. And this whole experience will only be a reminder of how strong we really are.
