Not only have you not had a boyfriend in a while, but you don’t even feel like you are in the market for a new relationship. Perhaps you’re overreacting. Today, we asked women if they ever felt like they would never be in a relationship again. They shared their experiences, and you may see that you might be overreacting too.
1. You don’t think men look at you anymore.
It’s been a while since you felt a set of eyes gazing at you in public, and your self-esteem has diminished even further. Don’t give up. Spend a few more minutes putting on your makeup in the morning. It’s an easy fix, and if you turn a couple of heads, you will quickly regain your confidence.
2. No male names appear in your email history.
It’s not intentional, but your email communication has mostly been with female friends, and you rarely see email from a man. Men shy away from sending emails to women who have not responded in the past or who were too short with their responses. If you want to see more emails from male friends, try to respond to their messages promptly and frequently.
3. You weren’t asked for your contact information.
Women can get easily discouraged, especially when they meet someone new and he doesn’t ask for their contact information. If you don’t share your contact information, it is unlikely that a new romance will develop. Be bold. If you want to take the relationship to the next level, have the courage to ask for his contact information.
4. You haven’t received a dinner invitation in a while.
Often, the first step in discovering a new relationship is to go out on a dinner date. If you haven’t received an invitation in a while, and you can’t help but feel like you’ve fallen off the face of the earth, why not turn the tables and make a move yourself? Your proactive attitude may lead to a new romance.
5. Men haven’t struck up a conversation with you.
Through your work or private life, you meet new people, but you’ve noticed that men haven’t struck up a conversation with you lately. You may be unknowingly creating an aura that men find difficult to approach. Try smiling a bit more. A smile makes you look friendly and approachable, and men will soon strike up a casual conversation with you.