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5 Warning Signs Of A Fake Friend And How To Deal With One

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Do you know why true friends are considered a treasure these days? Because it’s so damn hard to find one. Unfortunately, most of us are surrounded by toxic people who only pretend to be our friends so long as they can use us. 

It has become very difficult to spot these fake friends because most of them have become real pros at faking friendships. I’ve compiled a list of signs of a fake friend to help you identify and deal with them. 

You should always remember one thing: it’s better to have one friend you’re sure you can always count on than to have a wide social circlewhere you can’t tell for sure if all those people are your real friends 

I always say that God chooses our family members for us, but we’re the ones who choose our friends . That’s why if you allow your friends to disrespect, manipulate, or belittle you, you’re the only one to blame.

Good friends are hard to find these days because the world is full of fake friendships.That’s why you should consider yourself lucky if you have someone you’re sure you can always count on. 

If you have a solid group of friends , guard those friendships because they’re definitely one of the most valuable things in your life. 

5 Clear Signs Of A Fake Friend

 

Even though it’s become challenging to spot fake friends nowadays, there are still some pretty clear red flags of fake friendships we should all look out for. So, if you want to know how to tell if you have a fake friend , just keep reading below. 

1. They use you for their personal gain

A bad friend will always reach out only when it’s convenient for them or when they need something from you. They hang out with you only because they want to take advantage of you. 

They don’t want to spend quality time with you or to get to know you better. They’ll ask to get together only when they need you, and this is one of the most obvious signs of a fake friend . 

2. They’re never there when you need them most

Your close friend should be someone who is always there for you – someone who will stand by your side no matter what and who wants to share everything with you, the good moments as much as the bad ones. 

If you can never count on your friend because they were never there for you when you needed them the most, I’m sorry, but the truth is you’re in a toxic relationship , and that person was never your real friend . 

3. They’re constantly pointing out your flaws 

A good friend is someone who knows you better than anyone else. They’re a person who respects, accepts, and embraces all your flaws and imperfections. It’s someone who accepts you the way you are and encourages you to be a better version of yourself every day. 

On the other hand, a bad friend will always try to emphasize your flaws and make you feel bad about those not-so-perfect parts of yourself. 

They know what your bad sides are, and they’ll try to point them out often just to hurt you. They’ll do it because they want to suck the confidence out of you, and that’s something you should never allow.  

4. They try to manipulate or control you 

Girl explaining something with hands to her friend in the restaurant

A healthy friendship consists of two people who try to understand and respect each other’s choices and decisions. It’s a healthy relationship where both sides have different interests and perspectives and still try to be compassionate and understanding towards each other. 

Only a bad friend would use your sincere feelings to try to take control of your life. They’ll also try to make you feel guilty in order to manipulate you into doing something they want you to do. 

That would lead to a codependent relationship,which would harm your emotional and mental health. Unfortunately, I was dragged into such a relationship, and it took me a while to understand that I’m the only one who has control of my life . 

5. Your accomplishments make them jealous 

good friend is someone who’ll be proud of your achievements and always rejoice in your accomplishments. They’ll see your success as their own because friendship is truly one soul separated into two living bodies. 

If you feel like your friend is envious of your success and all your accomplishments, I’m sorry, but you’re dealing with a very bad friend , and you need to let go of that friendship for your own peace of mind.

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