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9 Things You Should Do When You Fall for Your Best Friend’s Guy

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You know you shouldn’t, but you find yourself falling for your best friend’s guy. This time we asked our female readers what they did when they found themselves in this situation. This is what they have to say.

1. Avoid meeting up with your friend and her guy until you find someone else you like

“I was able to control my feelings by keeping some distance.” A lot of girls said they could calm themselves down after they kept their distance for a while. If you do not want your friend to think you are avoiding her, you can make up some white lies about having a lot of schoolwork to do or being busy at work.

You know you shouldn’t, but you find yourself falling for your best friend’s guy. This time we asked our female readers what they did when they found themselves in this situation. This is what they have to say.

1. Avoid meeting up with your friend and her guy until you find someone else you like

“I was able to control my feelings by keeping some distance.” A lot of girls said they could calm themselves down after they kept their distance for a while. If you do not want your friend to think you are avoiding her, you can make up some white lies about having a lot of schoolwork to do or being busy at work.

2. Start meeting new people by going out more

“The best way you can forget about your love is to find a new love!” Start looking for new connections with men and you will slowly forget about your friend’s guy. Hang out more with other single girls and go out!

3. Confess to him and give yourself a wakeup call

“I heard him say that he loves my friend so he can’t be with me, and that opened my eyes.” Being rejected by him is an effective way to move on. It might be best to say it jokingly when your friend is around too. That way you won’t have to go behind her back and create any unnecessary misunderstandings.

4. Keep yourself busy with work or a hobby

“Find something you can concentrate on for a while and forget about relationships.” Some girls try to forget about their feelings by keeping themselves very busy so they won’t have time to think about anything else. Who knows, you might just find someone else while you are working hard on your work or hobby.

5. Start crushing on a favorite musician or comedian

“I tend to forget about my friend’s guy when I am into some celebrity.” You can do this when you are not quite yet ready to move on with a real person. It can also be entertaining for you if you start attending your favorite musician’s or comedian’s live performances.

6. Try to get the guy to introduce you to his hot friends

“I think you will be able to find someone else you can focus your energy on.” As the old saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together!” See this as a chance to be a better person, and you might find someone better than him who is single and looking for someone like you!

7. Rationally think about the consequences

“I came to realize that I didn’t have it in me to face the consequences if I made a move on her guy.” Thinking about the consequences in detail might be just what you need to stop yourself from having these feelings. Sometimes it gives you the perspective that you need.

8. Change your environment and start fresh

“I moved to a new place, and it gave me a fresh start.” A big change, like moving to a new place, might be a little radical, but moving on will help you immensely. In addition, with a new environment and a new life, you will also meet new people.

9. Think about your friend’s happiness and give up

“This might sound a little sad, but I forced myself to see how happy they were together, and I gave up in the end.” Some girls forced themselves to see the couple and their public affection, and they made themselves give up on having any chance with their friend’s boyfriend. This will sting a little, but in the end, it’s the right thing to do.

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