A Zambian technician, Chama Paul Mulenga, has lamented on social media about his wife falling pregnant just few months after she gave birth.
The man said his wife has does not like family planning and she often gives excuses whenever the topic comes up in discussions.
According to him, it is a big problem because she just missed her monthly cycle and it means he would have to go another few months without intimacy with her.
Chama, who said they have an eight-month-old baby cried out for help as they are expecting another one soon.
He wrote; “My wife has a problem of taking family planning of which she always has excuses here and there, but as a man I have desires and I can even go up to 4-5months without taking her to bed.
I am tired of this and I even go to an extent of almost forcing myself on her, apparently she has missed for this month which mainly happens between the 10th and the 12th, we have an 8month baby and I don’t know what would become of us. what do I do? “
In other news, a Nigerian lady has revealed that she is pregnant for her boyfriend’s friend whom they accommodated in their house.
She said she pays equal rent with her boyfriend and he invited his friend to stay with them early this year even after she vehemently opposed the idea.
The lady said she is now three months pregnant for the guy who has his own girlfriend and is telling her to pin the child on her boyfriend.
According to her, the main man promised to marry her when he is done with his Masters degree but seeing as how he continues to delay, she now wants to leave him for the friend.
She also knows the girlfriend of the person she is pregnant for, but given the complicated situation, she sought advice on how to deal with the secret lover’s girl.
She further said the other man also promised to breakup with his babe and marry her but she does not know if he will keep his word.
The woman blamed her boyfriend for what happened, saying that if he had listened to her and not invited his friend, she would not have gotten pregnant or fallen for him.
In her words; I rented an apartment with my boyfriend. We paid fifty fifty. Earlier this year he brought in his friend to live with us against my will. We were to get married once he’s done with his Masters. To cut the long story short, I am 3 months gone for his friend, sadly this friend has a serious relationship.
My guy believes that he is responsible for the pregnancy. When I told his friend that I’m pregnant for him, he said I should pretend that the baby belongs to my guy,while he looks for money to rent his own apartment and then end his relationship with his girlfriend. I love him and would want to settle down with him. As for my guy he will deal with it, because I did my best to discourage him from bringing his friend to live with us. Moreover he wasn’t serious about marrying me.
Where I need advise is on how to deal with his girlfriend because she happen to be someone i know (close). And do you think he will rent an apartment and take care of me as he promised? This can happen to anyone, please don’t judge me. Just need advise.
